Showing posts with label Freedom of Expression. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Freedom of Expression. Show all posts

Thursday, December 22, 2011

All-American Muslim is a TV show! Why do we allow hate to grow?


 A friend asked me to give my opinion on the controversy surrounding the TLC show "All-American Muslim".  If you recall from my first post, I was excited for the show and felt it might be added to one my many TV viewing habits (All the House Wives, the annoying Kardashians, the occasional baby beauty pageants and I will admit at times Storage Auctions).  After watching the first show I realized it did not have enough drama, cat fights or enough bling to continue watching.  It has recently peaked my interest again to see which advertisers are taking advantage of the rating hikes and making a stand. 

Being in the media for a very long time, I understand an advertiser have a the right to pull out of any program they feel may upset their consumer, it is their right.  People this is a free country.  You can air whatever you want and  you can choose not to advertise in any program you do not want and you have choices to shop in other places if do not like what business stands for.  What puzzles me is why Lowe's  allowed  this to get to this level and where is their PR team.   

Why are we so quick to jump on Corporate America and see the giant fall and choose to ignore the real instigator  who caused all this - The Florida Family Association.  They are festering hate in this country, which makes them no different from the fundamentalist who teach young Muslims that all things West is bad and should be destroyed.  This will be another bullet for the fundamentalist to teach with  "see they are out to destroy Islam".  Although a fundamentalist may have an issue with the mini dressed Lebanon's girl  who wants to open a night club and was having a glass of white wine on the last show.

Lets not forget all the things that makes this country so amazing and great.  Our foundation is rooted in our beliefs of freedom and equality.  I was recently watching Lidia-celebrates-america on PBS (yes I do watch that channel) and she walked us through a Chinese New Year dinner and a Jewish Passover Seder.  I found the show so fascinating because she showed that everyone is welcomed in America.  Everyone came here for a dream. Maybe the 35,000 + members of FFA and David Caton should go back to wherever their ancestors originated  from and live outside of the United States for a year or two.  Just maybe that will remind them why  we all live here! 


Sunday, November 13, 2011

Freedom of expression for one Afghani girl

I have been thinking about starting a blog for some time but never had the time before with a full time job and running a home. Now that I am a stay at home mom (not by choice and not for long!!), I decided to give it a try once more.  A little about me, I am happily married to a great man(except during PMS moments when all men are evil), two great kids, aging parents and some crazy sisters living in suburbia of New Jersey! I dabbled in writing a blog a few years ago when I had started khala Jan but gave up when life took over.

What inspired me to start this blog  and how is it different from all the other mommy blogs out there? Well for one, I am a Pashtun Afghan who tries to balance a very modern American life within a very strict culture and beliefs. Secondly, I want to clear up any misconceptions about all Afghan woman and provide a glimpse of some of the issues we face.

Lastly I want to showcase that not every Afghan woman is living a loveless life of abuse. Let me stress that I will not deny, nor ignore that woman's rights are a large issue within our culture. I hope to inspire our Afghan community to start the change one home at a time. So once again, I welcome you to my life as I take you through my weekly adventures (and cooking mis-adventures).

Today I will provide my view on TLC new program on "All-American Muslim". As a Muslim, my first opinion is nicely done.  They touched on all the issues that we face:
  1. younger generation marrying a non Muslim
  2. cover up vs. not cover up
  3. insecurity woman feel when they try to break the norms
  4. our relationship with spouse (do they help out or not)
  5. the bullying some kids face when trying to fit in 
  6. old maid issues  
As a TV viewer looking for entertaining shows, I am not sure if I will follow them as I did "The Real Housewives of New Jersey" or any of the other reality shows that consumes my time.  But I will give it a chance and see if upcoming episodes will get juicy and moves away from teaching.  Muslims do not openly talk about their sex lives or show any intimate moments, therefore,  I am curious to see how TLC will keep viewers entertained. All I ask is that I hope future shows have better belly dancers!  Sadly I give this show a mix review and will return for a second viewing to see if it gets better.